tuesday, we visited SERVE office. the most impressive talk was from Tom, the program director. he explained how SERVE is helping the afghan people. he explained how the expats are working with afghans to be in charge and then the afghans themselves help the people who need help. such as the blind and deaf and other disabled people. i like that they give ownership of the problems to the afghans themselves so that they can become a stronger people and be involved and have self respect and just form a better community. also, i liked the idea that SERVE asks the afghan community to identify the needs of their community, helps them prioritize their needs and helps them identify resources they already have to solve some of their problems.
there are very deeply rutted roads all over the place and so driving is an experience. the best way to describe it is to have you think about the indiana Jones ride at disneyland...only worse! and the lines on the road are justa suggestion. if there are two lanes, that means really 3 lanes...or 4 or 5! whatever! people drive all over the place...on the wrong side...on the SIDE of the road. and it is just So BUMPY!!!
i am very interested in the program for the deaf because i myself am so hard of hearing. and being a single woman, i am interested in hpw the women are treated here. much better than they used to be. yay!
in the evening we had a meeting with other people from the SERVE office and their families and we had a wonderful time of singing and prayer and fellowship. i wish we had been able to talk more but so many little kids were there...they had to get home.
it is nice to have sucha full house.
wednesday..today...we went on a 70km trip on rutted roads to Bagram where we saw the Prevention of blindness program. then we went to Parwan to see the Enabling and Mobilizing Afghan Disabled program. we saw a class of deaf people and it was really great to see all the different ages of kids signing. and i had to step away because i started crying and i didnt want anyone to see that...especially the deaf kids. but it really touches my heart that deaf kids are getting the help and attention they need to be integrated into the community.
after awhile we had a traditional lunch there, where we sat on "toshaks", big cushions and then our food was on a plastic tablecloth on the ground. and they served us so much food!!! HUGE plates of rice which was "mazadar" (delicious), lamb burgers, naan, chips (AkA fries), cucumbers, yoghurt, firni (cardamom pudding), and an apple and a pepsi (NO COKE!).
dont be grossed out but i have to mention this...i used the squatty potty for the 1st time today at this place. it's fine and i could do it again if i had to. still prefer to avoid it, but i CAN do it! heheheheheh!
later we went to some people's houses where the physical therapist worked with some people. there was one girl who had been brain damaged, i guess, and her body wouldnt work exactly right. and the therapist was working with her, but she was so embarrassed because of all the men who were there and she was not able to maintain complete modesty (according to her culture). i had to turn away again because i started to cry again. i felt so bad for her being in this embarrassing predicament. and then her mother told me (sharon translated) that she wishes we would just take her daughter away with us so she wouldnt have to take care of her any more!!!! as a mom and a person who values family very much, this was heartbreaking for me. the mom said it loud enough for the daughter to hear and she was smiling when she said it!!! i could only imagine how this made the daughter feel and i couldnt handle that.
anyway, today was a very emotional day and tomorrow will be a fun day. we are SHOPPING!!!! but then we will be back to work, jessi and i...to work on the annual report.
bye for now!
blessings,
audree*